What Did The Flash Tells Us?

          The Flash's advice is why force life?

          Why predict? Why try to plan ahead?

           Let life flow naturally. Let the event's of life come to you rather you seeking them.

           I have been wanting a girlfriend. I am guilty of being impatient and getting frustrated which have cost me some friendships.

          I have learned life will send it your way when the time comes.

          My impatience and my inability to control my feelings have led to me having no friends and no chance of building toward a romantic relationship.

         I struggle with waiting and letting things evolve over time.

         I realize that life does not allow everything to happen in one day.
   
         Meet a girl, friends for a few months and then start dating, its hard me.

         I have been alone for so long, it is hard to not realize that life is not perfect and that not everything is going to happen like the movies and TV Shows.

        My brain sometimes says this needs to get moving and on the other side the other person becomes uncomfortable and says she does not want to be around, he is too pushy and too attentive.

        My brain created this notion of the perfect event, the perfect mutual feelings, and the perfect timing.

       I have learned that line of thinking is a relationship wrecker.

       Girls do not like guys to move too fast.

       I have lost a few in the last year because I moved too far too fast.

      The Flash and his advice is to be patient.

      To let life takes its course and seize the opportunities when they arise.

      Do not burn bridges. Keep all doors open!

      Another mistake of mine I made this Summer. 2 people I liked I decided that I had to respond to something that was said that was small and not worth my time and I lost a lot of friends present and future.

     I just get impatient. I get emotionally charged.

     I feel I wasted my prime of my young adulthood and now I am at a school where people are older than I am and I cannot find friends.

    I cannot find someone I can get close to and build a relationship with.

    I am frustrated and I am not sure what is next.

    I hope The Flash is right. I hope patience will reward me and I can find someone.