The Life of a Superhero and Lessons That Become Reality in Real Life

          Forgiveness is often a given in the fictional world, but in real life its not.

         The reality is having a temper, letting anxiety win, and talking to people when your upset can destroy relationships and friendships that we once valued.

         It happened to me this Summer.

         I cannot go back and the relationships, the connections, and friendships are gone.

        I thought being a big man and being on my own without people caring and being around me would be the answer.

        I wish I would have taken Supergirl's advice and tried to use my energy to mend and heal the situations.

       In a moment a bad decision or a harsh comment can change life forever.

      It hurts, it stings, and it makes me really want to be a better person and be nice to people.

      I will never get back what I lost and that is a fact and I will never be able to change it.

     I believe in second chances, but others do not.

     It is the feeling that so much is gone and that people do not want to work with me anymore and they do not want to interact or be around me anymore.

    Superheroes, people, and many others come to a point in life where you have to make choices and be prepared to accept the consequences.

   The choices I made this summer will hurt, but they will change who I am so I never have to experience what I am feeling now.